one child policy and the 14 kids problem

How many kids should you have? Should the government or you decide?
I don't think that the government should decide how many kids you should have because this is a family thing and you should be the one who decides. Instead of saying you can only have one kid they should instead say:you can have as many kid as they can but it is their responsibility to be able to take care of their own kids. Also you as a mother should have your own limit to how many children you can have and take care of fully.
Is giving birth good or bad?
I don't think that giving birth is bad or good because it depends on how you had the baby. If you wanted the baby is good but if it's accidental it's bad.
Overall I don't agree that they should have limit laws about to how many children you should have but you yourself should be the one controlling the birth. It isn't the government fault that you are pregnant.